- Jurisdiction
- Pennsylvania
Hello, I am a UK citizen and have a finacee in Utica. We had a child in Dec 2016 I am not the bio. Father but I supported her and got engaged during her first 2 weeksof pregnancy, I am down on birth cert as father and she has my last name. Only her mother knew about the fact. We lease a house together which I have paid for. I have been stuck in the UK for cancer treatment the last 2 1/² years. Finally in remission, then she texts me and says she doesn't love me your daughter isn't really yours I have started the process of changing her last name you will never see her again.
Also if I turn up at our house which all my belongings are in Inc everything in the house I bought, she will have me arrested, issue PFA, I am in a mess, our daughter has been over to the UK on 5 occasions to see me, and I just recently came back from being there for 8 weeks, my fiancee parents are on my side, her dad's response was she has mental issues. If I stop paying for the house she can't and will get evicted. She has 2 kids to a previous marriage and is under court orders to be within a certain distance of a school and she can't afford a deposit for a house. Where do I stand ?
1. on her just taking my daughter away( she has dual citizenship with UK)
2. On changing her name
3. On just saying if you come near the house I will have you arrested?
NB I have never been violent to her so where she added the PFA into a text from I have no idea. But over the last 3 years I have spent 40k on rent and there is 15k of items I bought in the house.
I don't want my daughter growing up in a crap area with whom ever she ends up with bringing her up.
I am heading over in 2 weeks and I will be staying with her parents for 2 weeks.
Thanks for your help in this.
Below is the text I get after 4 years of supporting her and her children.
Also if I turn up at our house which all my belongings are in Inc everything in the house I bought, she will have me arrested, issue PFA, I am in a mess, our daughter has been over to the UK on 5 occasions to see me, and I just recently came back from being there for 8 weeks, my fiancee parents are on my side, her dad's response was she has mental issues. If I stop paying for the house she can't and will get evicted. She has 2 kids to a previous marriage and is under court orders to be within a certain distance of a school and she can't afford a deposit for a house. Where do I stand ?
1. on her just taking my daughter away( she has dual citizenship with UK)
2. On changing her name
3. On just saying if you come near the house I will have you arrested?
NB I have never been violent to her so where she added the PFA into a text from I have no idea. But over the last 3 years I have spent 40k on rent and there is 15k of items I bought in the house.
I don't want my daughter growing up in a crap area with whom ever she ends up with bringing her up.
I am heading over in 2 weeks and I will be staying with her parents for 2 weeks.
Thanks for your help in this.
Below is the text I get after 4 years of supporting her and her children.