Spiteful neighbor, what can I do?

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Jmall

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I'm not quite sure where this belongs, this seems to be the best fit. However... it has to do with several other things:
*Harassment
*Theft
*Landlord/Tenant rights
*Juvenile law

I live in an apartment building in Montpelier, Vermont.

It started with parking. Neighbors that have lived in the building for 20+ years got upset about parking. Parking was never assigned, but they claimed it was "unofficially assigned." This issue led to the landlord officially assigning spots for people.

As soon as this issue reared it's head, I started missing packages. Everything that was supposed to show up for Christmas, never did. Over a thousand dollars worth of packages between December/January never came.

Then came the noise complaints, the downstairs neighbors started making false claims to the landlord that I have people over at 3 in the morning, and that they've had to come up and ask me to be quieter several times (this has never happened, they came up once to ask me to move my car, see above).

Now they are using the police and child protective services to harass me anonymously. My daughter is 7 years old, and occasionally stays home alone for an hour until I come home from work. She has a safety plan. She knows to lock the door, she knows to call me, and I have several other people able to check on her/pick her up if need be.

Yesterday I had to leave work early, because the police called me, saying they were at my house with my daughter. That the neighbor had called, and claimed that my daughter was "unsafe" due to being home alone.

In Vermont, there is no "latchkey kid" law. Yet, the police still saw fit to enter my home without my permission.

Today I received a call from DCF (child protective services) stating that they were opening an assessment.

What can I do to stop this nightmare? My neighbors are lying in attempt to get me evicted, stealing packages, and making superfluous reports to local agencies. It even states in my lease that I have a right to live peacefully.
 
As soon as this issue reared it's head, I started missing packages. Everything that was supposed to show up for Christmas, never did. Over a thousand dollars worth of packages between December/January never came.


That is an easy issue to solve.
You can direct Amazon for example, to deliver your orders to one of their package drop boxes.
You can also direct FedEx or UPS to hold your deliveries at the local facility nearest to you.

The easiest, less complex, albeit a bot more expensive is solution is to get a mailing address from a local UPS Store, then have ALL of deliveries sent to that address, NOT your residence address.

What can I do to stop this nightmare?

You can HIRE an adult babysitter to care for the child, send the child to a licensed daycare facility, or stop leaving a seven year old child home alone.

What can I do to stop this nightmare?
Long term the best solution will be to relocate.

Yes, that will be expensive, inconvenient, but the result achieves that which you seek; privacy, anonymity, peace, civility, calm, and quiet.
 
You can HIRE an adult babysitter to care for the child, send the child to a licensed daycare facility, or stop leaving a seven year old child home alone.

Yes, that is an obvious solution.

However, it's once a week, for an hour. There are no laws against it, and she has an effective safety plan in place.

As a single parent with an 8-5 job, I have to make choices.

My three choices to solve that situation myself are:
1) Spend money I don't have on a babysitter.
2) Have her come to work with me, and walk home in the sub-zero temperature.
3) Have her stay at home alone for an hour, with an established safety plan.
 
Yes, that is an obvious solution.

However, it's once a week, for an hour. There are no laws against it, and she has an effective safety plan in place.

As a single parent with an 8-5 job, I have to make choices.

My three choices to solve that situation myself are:
1) Spend money I don't have on a babysitter.
2) Have her come to work with me, and walk home in the sub-zero temperature.
3) Have her stay at home alone for an hour, with an established safety plan.


In Vermont, there is no "latchkey kid" law. Yet, the police still saw fit to enter my home without my permission.



I am licensed to practice law in about 20 states, as well as before the federal bar.

I don't make, nor do I interpret the laws of Vermont.

You are free to choose whatever works for you.

In Vermont, there is no "latchkey kid" law. Yet, the police still saw fit to enter my home without my permission.

You did indicate that Vermont law appears to be contrary to that which you'd wish to believe.

If you think the police violated VT laws, complain to the Chief of Police, City Council, or Mayor.

You can always hire a VT lawyer to litigate the matter for you.

The Vermont authorities will do their sworn duties to uphold the laws of the state.

I wish you well, mate.
 
I am licensed to practice law in about 20 states, as well as before the federal bar.

I don't make, nor do I interpret the laws of Vermont.

You are free to choose whatever works for you.



You did indicate that Vermont law appears to be contrary to that which you'd wish to believe.

If you think the police violated VT laws, complain to the Chief of Police, City Council, or Mayor.

You can always hire a VT lawyer to litigate the matter for you.

The Vermont authorities will do their sworn duties to uphold the laws of the state.

I wish you well, mate.

I think you misunderstood what I said. There are no "latchkey kid" laws, which also means there are no laws against "latchkey" kids.
 
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