Try to seek help through a womens advocate center....just because you are not being physically abused does not mean that you can't get help through their center. Call the crisis line (i.e. Womenspace) and ask them for help and resources...a lot of them provide lawyers free of charge, classes...
I am currently going through a divorce - My spouse and I would LIKE to agree upon the terms before filing so we can expedite the process (rather than wait 3 months per Oregon law) and we intend to file together.
I will be stuck with a vehicle worth $10k and we owe $17k. Is there any way to...