I'm not talking out of state, more like across town. If I leave I would probably go to my parents house and they live about 10 minutes away from our house.
I am considering separating from my husband. He refuses to go to counseling and I don't know how much longer I can live in this situation (no physical abuse or anything like that, purely lack of communication). I would like to try to work things out and am hoping time apart will help that...