Recent content by richardcathydad

Thanks for the advice about support continuing after 18 unless challenged. I didn't know that, and of course it makes sense. California and most other states make money from support, so why should they automatically stop it? I moved to where I could afford to move, and I -really- needed to...

First, let's get the "deadbeat Dat" attitude out of the way. My ex walked away with everything, I went to Chapter 7 bankruptcy. I paid both alimony and child support right up to the time I went bankrupt. I had 6 jobs in the last 2 years I lived in California, each time I was eased out of my...

-------------------------------- Can't afford an attorney, couldn't afford it when I was getting screwed over. I did complain to the bar - they don't eat their own. He had a friend of his do the actual court appearances as her "lawyer" while he actually wrote all the court actions. I...

Although that is the most obvious, simple and dismissive answer, what I really wanted was some actual advice and / or help. The judge who issued all the orders, was a buddy of my ex's boyfriend. There was not one appearance in court where I got, won, received any kind of favorable judgement...

My ex had an affair with her divorce lawyer, who spent 6 years draining everything I had, right down to Chapter 7 bankruptcy. That was almost 10 years ago, and I have not had a regular job since. However, my child support has added up to over $225K, a sum I can never pay. The order is in...