It's really sad when you go to a forum where you think you can get some sound advice about a legal situation only to have others say I should be more involved in my Mom's life.
I have two brothers and my mother who are located in Sonoma County (Santa Rosa, CA) and I live in San Diego County. My older brother has power of attorney and is the Successor Trustee since my dad passed away and my mother is incapacitated due to Alzheimer's.
My mom was moved to a memory care...