Recent content by Pooky

Thank you. Thank you to everyone.

Not to worry, I have addressed it (more than once which probably was unnecessary).

Yes I am.

Child was laying down in the back seat of the car in pain and SO was driving to the ER when i was called. The SO called me using my child's cellphone. Child was already with SO who lives out of town (about an hour away).

I took our child to a dermatology appt Thursday. Child seemed fine. Friday child noticed something swollen on leg and very painful. Dad took child to clinic, they gave a shot of antibiotic and gave 10 day antibiotic prescription for Cellulitis, gave orders to rest with leg up, take meds, etc...

Thank you. I will check the calculator. I am fairly certain it would be more than a 20% increase.

I didn't. And I kind of resent this: without a parent talking bad about another parent"" . How am i talking bad about the other parent? Our children have the same history. How dad treats our children, his actions, his words... as they have aged they all know how he is. Like I mentioned earlier...

To be clear, I did not talk with the child about taking dad back to court for child support. I talked to him about staying at my house on a more permanent basis. At first when i would ask dad what was going on etc I asked DAD about changing it, and so dad was mad at child for telling me he...

Sorry. I'm just not sure if I should pursue this. Our child is upset, rightly so, but says dad made a choice and it wasn't our child.. i should not interfere. Child wants to be able to trust me when telling me things (like dads not home again i'm going to stay at your house if thats ok to now...

If it were only a few nights once in a while, ok. But 4 out 5 nights every other week/weekend and 1-2 out of 2 nights every other week seems to be excessive.

Child Support would be changed if 50/50 is not actually 50/50 anymore because our child is staying at my house after school and overnight at my house during dad's parenting time.

We both have 50/50. I am good with our child staying at my house overnights on dads parenting days/nights. My problem is that if this is going to continue as it has the last 3 months, at least change parenting time which would change child support. And then if he only has a few days and one...

My hope would be that dad would actually go back to spending time with our child and be home/overnight on his parenting days so our child doesn't feel put on the backburner.

Can I adjust the parenting plan without an attorney? I am sure he will fight it due to money. I also do not think dad knows how many times our child is actually staying with me overnight on his parenting days/overnights. I had to stop contacting him because our child asked me to stay out of...

Sorry about the long paragraph. Mostly why is that our child is staying at my house overnight on most of dads parenting nights because dad is not home overnight. Our child was upset when I confronted dad and said I should not say anything to dad about child staying at my house overnight when dad...