thanks...
I have contacted the websites, they say they do remove content. These sites are all over the internet... people say what they want on them and they never remove content so that's not an option.
Here is my situation and I believe it's somewhat unique, but hopefully someone out there has some insight. About 12 years ago, my brother in law (husband's brother) had a falling out with my husband and myself. This was the result of my brother in law suing my dad over a business partnership...