While I'm at it too (since I'll be able to get the 5 messages again with the first account tomorrow), many users who found my real identity keep mentioning places and names of those I'm affiliated with recently. Beforehand it was just my first name, but now it's included others officially and...
I know most find it socially inappropriate but I'm not like others that's the point.
As for learning "social skills" that others want, I'll pass on that. Neurodiversity affirming practices are letting me be myself here.