So I'm fine to move the money without the fear of showing the judge we need my ex? I just want to make sure it doesn't hurt our case. We have evidence of abuse and neglect which is why we have the pfa but we weren't allowed an adoption at the time because in PA we were told me must be married...
But will the judge even ask if we use the child support? My ex rarely paid so I never checked the card until recently. My son's needs are met completely without any of my ex's money.
We are currently looking for a lawyer but I need advice in the mean time. My husband wants to adopt my child from a previous relationship. Long story short, we have an order from abuse against my ex but he is still required to pay child support. My husband and I want to put the money from the...