Thanks for your support. I am not out to hurt anyone legally or emotionally. What I asked for is not to gain money, like I have said so money times. It's not the money. It's the connection that I lost. True my father is gone in a physical manner. Not in thought or heart. I feel to respect in is...
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I have thought about going there. Even told her I would come there. She says there is no need for me to be there. My cousins and aunt have all said I could stay with them. I guess I feel that she is being stingy or as most east coast new Yorkers have the feeling someone is...
I used the term biological out of habit. Funny how certain wording gets people's attention. also a lot of people say "dad" when in fact it turns out to be a step parent. I did not want to be misleading and trying to keep things open as i felt possible talking to strangers.
Not trying to be...
No. His wife refused the military burial. He was a 2 tour vietnam vet of the air force. No wake no funeral. She had him cremated 2 days after his death.
Died last Sunday. Cremated Tuesday, received the ashes Saturday. Will pick them up tomorrow. She has just told me she had a dumpster brought...
True I did not fly to new york. Nor did he fly to idaho. Which is a finger pointing at both of us. Which we both understood. Very good point though.
With an unexpected death you just never know what to do as you said words are words until they are in black and white.
I thank you for your...
They live in a state that has intestat law. I have not been mean or ignorant towards her. I have been very pleasant. Even asked to help with burial arrangements or any extras.
My biological father just passed. His wife my "step-mother" states that I have no right to anything of my father's belongings.
I live in Idaho and they live in upstate New York. To be honest I know very little of my father an vise/verse.
I am the only child he has. So I guess the only heir...