I have not seen such behavior in him until after the kids were born. The dynamics at home changed, the attention was taken away from him and he cannot deal with it. I suppose those character traits were present all along but needed some high level of stress to surface. I just don't trust him...
I have been married for 19 years and the relationship is progressively getting worse. My husband has been verbally abusing me for a long time now and it has gotten to the point that I no longer can tollerate it. In addition during the last two weeks he started to physically abuse me. While he...