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    need advice

    I don't know what to do about the Monday issue, my papers say I can have them till Monday at 7pm, but it also says that I have to ensure they get to school, which is a problem till I get a car. I don't want to change to Sunday in the papers, because then when I get a car in February I will have...
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    need advice

    As far as I am aware of the only things being changed is transportation issue, and putting a time for kid drop off on Fridays, since it just says after school. If I were to disagree with something what happens next?
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    need advice

    My ex husband is wanting to go to his lawyer and have him fix the holes in our divorce decree. According to ex, we both go to his lawyer's office and agree to what needs to be put in, and the lawyer sends it to judge. First, I don't have a lawyer nor do I have the funds for a lawyer so I have to...
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    need advice quick

    No and I told him that I would meet him halfway, because I can take the bus a town a way from him but he won't do that, when we doing that before I started working. Thank you for advice and hopefully I will be successful as far as having him made responsible for transportation.
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    need advice quick

    all it says is the days we have them, it doesn't say anything about drop off pick up other than time frames for days. i have no way to get them from him and he is refusing to bring them or even meet me half way
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    need advice quick

    I have joint custody, and when we divorced we were living in same county. Ex then moved to Macoupin county, and has recently started asking me for gas. I just told him I couldn't pay him 20 for gas this Friday and now he is saying I am not getting the kids since I have no way to go get them, and...
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    reserved child support

    I don't quite understand the whole change in circumstances?? Is the fact that my children are not treated right when with him, and that in the last 2 years CPS has investigated him numerous times even though indication wasn't put forth mean anything as far as change in circumstances? I have to...
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    question about custody agreement

    I was wrong about the time frame since he moved, I looked at my divorce decree and we were finalized in May 2009, and he didn't move til after the new year, I so believe it was in June of 2010. Just found out from my 5 year old that they have moved again, and I don't have the address, ex refuses...
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    reserved child support

    what is the time frame on being able to modify a custody agreement? And do I have to have hardcore reasons for wanting to change it? I mean my ex is an ass, and yes, I know any ex wife is probably going to say that about her ex but he yells at the kids all the time, makes his g/f take care of...
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    reserved child support

    The decree doesn't state a custodial parent. We have joint custody and the time frames were pretty close. According to the papers I have children from after school on Friday to Monday evenings at 7pm. Just recently the children have been going with ex on Sundays due to me not having a car and...
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    reserved child support

    I have been divorced since 2009, and it says reserved for child support, I don't know how that works, other than either party can request it at any time. What is the process to go through?
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    trying to get true info

    Thank you that was very helpful.
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    trying to get true info

    Hi, I live in Illinois, and a couple years ago I got arrested and charged with a felony for misuse of a credit card. The Judge ordered me on probation, and once I have paid back all restitution I would be off probation and my charge will be plead down to a misdemeanor. I have now chose to go to...
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    question about custody agreement

    Thank you very much, I did fine when I went in last time pro se and I won the case. Thanks again for your input.
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    question about custody agreement

    Is there any way around hiring a lawyer and appearing pro se? I have contacted the agency in my area that represents for little to nothing, but they won't take my case. Last time a motion was filed and we went before the Judge, she said the decree is full of holes and needs fixed, I contacted...
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