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    Toxic Paternal grandparents seeking visitation

    Please do not be coy...it is commonsense to state what type of pills. This is the remark I felt was rude. I am going through a lot right now and my mind is everywhere...maybe you didn't mean to be rude, but this is how I perceived it. I apologize if I was wrong, but know that If I was trying to...
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    Toxic Paternal grandparents seeking visitation

    Did you truely take that as a snotty remark? It was not intended to be that way, I just felt your remark was rude and did not feel you had a reason to be rude with me.
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    Toxic Paternal grandparents seeking visitation

    ...BayState can you be clear as to what commonsense is? I am pretty sure there are things I have more knowledge about than you do, but would it be fair for me to say you have no common sense for not knowing? Please do not be rude with me. I am not here for pitty, or to be spoken to in such a...
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    Toxic Paternal grandparents seeking visitation

    Yes, there is much more to the situation and I suppose I did leave much room for doubt on my part. I will begin with stating that over 15 years ago I was in an abusive relationship and pregnant, I was 15 yrs. old. I was scared to leave and scared that he would hurt my baby. I spoke to my mother...
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    Toxic Paternal grandparents seeking visitation

    My son just came home today from visitation with grandparents and we found him with a bottle of pills that belong to grandma. We looked in his spiderman bag and found another bottle of pills. What can we do or should we do? We already called and made a police report.
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    Can we leave the state???

    My heart goes out to the two children involved. It is sad that these kids are living in two different households rather than together. I think parents need to seriously think about their childrens needs and stop putting their own needs ahead of theirs! I would eat crap for my kids if I knew that...
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    Toxic Paternal grandparents seeking visitation

    Although my child's father was troubled I would have never wished this on him. He had a good heart, but many problems. My son will know about his father and know that his stepfather, whom has been in his life since birth, respects the fact that he has another dad and still loves him as his own...
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    Is my custody case good enough?

    A mother's role is important to a child, but if a mother puts her children at risk than it is better for them to be where they have stability and safety. I am a mother of 5 and LOVE my children unconditionally, yet if I was not able to care for them and bring them up in a secure, loving...
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    Toxic Paternal grandparents seeking visitation

    I believe with all my heart and soul that if you continue your fight knowing that you are right and you are doing everything you can to protect your child you will prevail! I won't stop until there is justice and my children can rest at night not worrying about being torn from their mother's...
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    Toxic Paternal grandparents seeking visitation

    Thank you for the advise and I will bring this to my attorney's attention. I just took video of my baby screaming and crying because he did not want to leave for a visit (overnight)...this is not only affecting my son it is affecting all my children and us, his parents.
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    Toxic Paternal grandparents seeking visitation

    Prosperina, I do not have the choice of making them prove their case because the judge that is handeling the case stated that he knows the statues, but he wants me to prove that visitation will be harmful to my child and what my reasons are. I have stayed up past 2 a.m. for days, writing papers...
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    Toxic Paternal grandparents seeking visitation

    Sir, I pray that you have 30 more years of servicing our country and our Lord. I will continue to pray because in the end, the Lord knows what is best for my children and I have faith that he will not put them in harms way. Thank you so much for your prayers sir, may God bless you for years to come!
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    Grandparental Visitation

    Army judge, my hat is off to you for your years of service. By no means did I mean any disrespect to you, I was just trying to shed light on some facts for a person in need. As for serving our country, I feel I am doing a good job by raising honorable young women and men here in my home. I am...
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    Toxic Paternal grandparents seeking visitation

    My 2 year old son's father commited suicide December of last year. Prior to this he was granted joint legal custody when my son was 6 months old. Before that he was in rehab for 6 months. During my pregnancy and the time of his visitation, me and my husband had many conflicts and a physical...
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    Grandparental Visitation

    Constitutional rights may not be owed to an individual by another person, but if anyone is in a position to know, understand and be able to up hold the constitutional rights of another then they should do so. What is the point in having judges that won't abide by something bigger than their own...
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