Those things still could be considered advances of the money even if there has never been any agreement or any knowledge of the items bought years ago being "billed" to him? I agree that we do need to get an attorney very soon to stop her outrageous spending. Thank you so much for the advice.
My husband and I are going through a situation where his grandmother passed in May 2008 and left him a substantial sum of money. His sister was named executrix of the estate and she is also a beneficiary which is causing some major conlict. She will not let us have a copy of the will or give us...