Thanks for relating your story;
I think I could easily get her to mediate; she got her lawyer in the heat of the moment. She had wanted to get a divorce for a while and one day to make herself finally go through with it she went out and hired a lawyer for $5000. That’s when I gave up trying...
Thank you; I am beginning to think you are correct. I just would hate to waist the money. As I said my wife and I are not fighting and are most agreeable to the others wishes. But I guess spending the money now will save me from a lot of worry later.
What I also really really want to avoid...
I understand what you’re saying; I wondered that myself, whether I was just getting hung up on the words while still getting what I want. It’s just hard to look at the divorce papers and not feel like I’m losing something. I don’t want to be legalized out of my daughter’s life even just a...
Thanks for your reply; :) you are very helpful
You touch on something is the essence of what is bothering me; If we were married issues like “medical appointments, school etc” wouldn’t be an issue. I don’t want them to be an issue now ether, I don’t want the school or the medical...
Thanks for the replies Proserpina;
My daughter is 7 months old;
We plan to do (and are doing right now) week on/week off until she becomes school age. Once she starts school we think it would be best for her to be in one place for the school week; so my wife will have her in our house...
Hello all my wife is divorcing me in New York.
Our relationship is very amicable and we have come to a very pleasing verbal agreement between the two of us on how to proceed with the divorce. She has gotten a lawyer to help her with the paper work and filing; I don’t plan to contest the...