ok, this is what the court order says:
The parties agree that it is in the best interests of the child for the petitioner(me) to have primary placement. The respondent(son's father) shall have alternate periods of placement at reasonable times upon reasonable notice, based upon excepted...
The court order is for visitation with his father, not anyone else. Unlike most visitation orders this one does Not specify specific days or times. Given these facts then why would I have to let him take our son, if he won't be there to visit with him?
The court ordered custody arrangement my ex-husband and I have is that I have sole legal custody and visitation for my ex-husband with our 12 year old son is "for reasonable times upon reasonable notice".
Our son usually visits with his father 2x a week amounting to about 7 to 10 hours total...