Since I can't edit my post I have to add that I DID try to be a part of his life, and was stood up every time, the child is being taken care of by his grandparents, it's one big happy family over there and believe me, if he wasn't being taken care of, then this wouldn't even be an issue, I did...
Hi, I'm going to make myself look like a jerk, but please finish reading before judging.
A long time ago I was tricked into getting pregnant to "keep me" from leaving (I'm bi polar), so I left anyways, I already had a baby and the father is/was a druggie/chronic liar with a serious criminal...