Michelle,
My daughter is three and a half and her pediatrician stated very clearly that socializing with other kids and participating in extra-curriculars is beneficial to her development. Your daughter is much older and you have similar in your parenting plan.
What my attorney has told...
I am in California, but I'm sure you have something similar. We have a service called Child Support Services and a you fill out all paperwork with them...they open the case for you, they get the order for wage assessment and they deduct from wages.
Also, you can contact the county in which...