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    longtime boyfriend died, I should be the one getting his pension

    you shouldn't judge me you shut yr mouth i havnt drink very much who the h-e dubble hoky sticks you think your tlaking to?! better wach out ill get yu
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    longtime boyfriend died, I should be the one getting his pension

    He retired about 2 years ago. No, I wasnt' named alternate payee, I don't believe an alternate was declared. I found at that , no, his 4 children were not named alternate payee, neither was I Also, I feel that I should get his social sec. monthly payments, too About his chipping in $48k for...
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    longtime boyfriend died, I should be the one getting his pension

    Ok, another issue: about the house where my deceased significant other chipped in on. The amount was $48,000 and his children want me to pay it back, claiming it was a "loan". No it wasn't, he wanted to contribute and someday move in with me in this new house. One of the children (the Executor)...
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    longtime boyfriend died, I should be the one getting his pension

    THIS IS THE PENSION PLAN: (XXXX XXXXXXX) EMPLOYEES PENSION PLAN is a Defined Benefit Plan providing retirees with a predetermined monthly retirement benefit upon reaching a specific age. The retirement benefit paid to a retiree is typically calculated using a formula which often employs years...
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    longtime boyfriend died, I should be the one getting his pension

    In his last year of life, it was I who would take him to the dr. appointments and chemo therapy. everyone knew we were common law married, it was obvious by having a 38 year relationship. we didn't have to have our union solemnized. Iowa law says that a common law marriage must be announced...
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    longtime boyfriend died, I should be the one getting his pension

    hold it! I forgot to mention, that; * a bout a year before he died, I had sold my house and bought another (cash, no mortgage). He paid for about 25% of the cost of new house (but, he's not on the deed, only I) * iowa law says that in a civil union, a party in relationship must declare that they...
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    longtime boyfriend died, I should be the one getting his pension

    Hello, My boyfriend of 38 years suddenly died. He was at the same place of employment for 40 years and was due a pension. I worked part time over the years and have been retired for past 14 years. I believe that I should, do to our longstanding relationship, be the beneficiary of his...
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