I think it would be very difficult to prosecute N for rape especially given that they had a previous relationship and she knowingly got drunk with someone she supposedly had no interest in. The videotape may be a different matter if it can be found. The best advice for your friend would be to...
I have a client charged with two felonies and a misdemeanor but no significant previous offenses. The prosecution is offering a deferred imposition of sentence which would allow her to get it off her record in a few years. The problem is that she will have to enter a guilty plea which could...