I did contact an attorney, and he advised, as you, to say nothing to anyone. From what I can gather, it is my wife pushing this. The poor kid has problems enough, has been in therapy for years, but my wife seems to be aiming to shut me out of not only family life, but any assets: that's her...
Our youngest daughter has been having psychological issues for some time. About 3 yrs. ago, she was cutting herself, and then around the holidays we received word- from her school counseller- that she was contemplating suicide. Visits ensued with a therapist; after a couple weeks more messages...