Why does it feel like everyone is attacking your post? I don't get it.
So what would be the benefit of having majority custody. Would you pay less in child support, would it be better at tax time? With so many fluctuations that must be difficult in scheduling your life, so having more than 50%...
Yes thank you, that's all been taken care of by now. I'm just wondering with her asking me to have the children so many extra times, in addition to my usual 3 times per week, if that would be an influencing decision in a judge granting me primary custody.
It's rented. The lease was in both of our names. She gets money for caretaking an elderly relative. She's never worked full time, ever, I've always supported us. And after separation I was still paying the rent and all the bills.
We both attended parent/teacher meetings. She mostly took them to the doctors, since those appointment are in the daytime and I work M-F and she doesn't. I took them to the dentists though since we could get weekend appointments.
My spouse refused to let me take the children with me to my new apartment, initially. I do have them at my apartment now though. She would only let me see them for visitation at her house. To avoid conflict I went along with it, and showed up at her house early to take them to school and came by...
The children are 7 and 13. I won't require a sitter, my classes are all online so I just do homework after they go to bed. Prior to separation I woke the kids up, got them fed and dressed and washed up, and took them to school on my way to work. After work I made sure they ate their dinner...
My wife and I are in the process of getting divorced. Right now I have our two children almost 50% of the time. 3 nights a week, sometimes 4. I was the primary day-to-day parent prior to the separation. I work full-time and also go to school part-time. My wife doesn't work, however she often...