I read all that but it's not important to my question. We're still married but living apart and he filed for divorce some time ago, and all of the contribution to that account was made while we were married. I really need a more thorough answer.
My husband and I are seperated and I just found out that he withdrew his 401k at his job after he quit. I told him that I knew this was wrong and that it was supposed to be divided. What should my next step be?