I agree with your statement so long as they apply policy consistently and not in such a a way that it is applied differently to a gay couple vs. a heterosexual couple.
My Employer St. Joseph Hospital is refusing to let my husband and I work in the same department even if we agree to work different shifts and have absolutely no supervisory role and/or oversight of each others work product. They are making me work at another campus some 20 miles from my home...