I have spoken to a lawyer and I do have to change the order to AZ, but I won't be able to do it until Friday, I have to pay about $170 to do the paperwork but I don't get paid until then, I talked to my ex today to see if we could work something out and ask the kids what they want to do and now...
We both lived in Iowa, the agreement that we did said "The parties shall continue to have joint custody and joint physical care of the above named children. That the children shall be in the primary physical care of the Petitioner (my ex) during the school year in Petitioner's new school...
We never did see a judge, but yes, it was a court order, he had a lawyer and I didn't and couldn't afford one, we just went in and signed the papers, also this took place in Iowa so I'm not sure how things would go here in Arizona, is the old order any good since he didn't bring them back to me...
I just moved here to Arizona, our "new" agreement was for him to have custody of the children in the state of Arizona and I was to have them in Illinois in the summer and he was to pay for all costs. At the time, I was single, had a job that paid minimum wage and was trying to care for 4...