Recent content by AKcdub

I know my order inside and out. But it was written without consideration on one of us moving out of state. He moved four years ago. No changes have been made. The 3rd party must be a "mutually agreed upon" person. It's always been his girlfriend, who loves my son and is a responsible...

Great advice. It's so difficult to know the best risks to take for the sake of my son feeling secure about his Dad's place in his life. There is precious little I actually have control over...one thing he's constantly mad about is that I won't just drop my kid on a plan to fly by himself. In...

That seems fair. It certainly isn't that I don't want them to see each other, I just want to have as much time as possible with my family, who I haven't been able to afford to get us to visit since my son was born. But also, my son has serious anxiety and hasn't seen his Dad in a couple...

This isn't exactly about his visitation. We do have perimeters in place for that, though they were agreed on before he chose to move to another state. For now, whenever he inserts what I "owe" him in terms of financially making his current visitation plan happen, I tell him I am adhering to...