I have primary custody of my two children. My ex wife during her last visitation with the children told them while i was on the phone with my oldest that she no longer wanted them. She screamed this at my oldest using cuss words. I picked them up immediately and told her if she in fact wanted them again after this visit we needed to go back to court. She verbally agreed and I have since been trying to find out how to process the motion to re visit the custody agreement from our divorce which determined all of this. The agreement discusses that neither party shall move without advising the court and other party as well as provide the information of the new address for purposes of knowing where my children are in case of an emergency. She has done neither and in addition is now verbally abusing my children. I have the rules and just lack the understanding of how to file the motion for order of show cause. Can anyone help. i have spoken to attorneys but because I live in one county and the case is in another county and she now lives in yet another county with an address I don't know the attorney wants $2000 up front to begin filing motions for a transfer to my county of residence since I have primary custody as well as travel and the trial dates. I simply don't have that. I have tried contacting the legal aid office only to sit on hold for hours and not have my call answered. is there anything that someone knows how to potentially file? Any advice is greatly appreciated. The issue is getting worse because now she feels the need to drive three hours to my county and call the police on me. They have advised her that she has to file the request in the county where the order is. I took off work and came to the county today but still can not get anything done. Please help!!!!