My jurisdiction is: New York I had an affair with a married man who is going through a divorce. The last time I saw him, we got into a huge fight. Ever since then, he has not answered any of my phone calls or e-mails. I'm not even sure he's been listening to the messages I left or read any of the e-mails I sent (in fact, I think he may have blocked me or changed his e-mail address completely). I am now 2 months pregnant by this man (it's also been 2 months since I last spoke with him). I want an abortion but can't afford to get one. I'm going to need his help in paying for the abortion. If I don't get this done by August 10th, it will be too late. Is there any way to get him to talk to me about this situation? I've considered confronting him in person since I know where he lives, but am not sure this would be the best idea. I don't want to deal with a restraining order. I'm worried he's going to file a restraining order just because I've been calling and e-mailing too much. Is this possible? This issue is important. I also suspect that that he may have children with his wife that he never told me about and is trying to get custody. If I end up giving birth, what are his legal obligations? How would it affect his divorce? If he really does have children, how would this affect his chances of getting custody?