Tjones9828
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- New York
My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years, we have one daughter and another child on the way. He has a son from a previous relationship. The son is 5 almost 6.
I have had verbal arguments with the ex girlfriend about her not wanting me to attend his events and such after her boyfriend got in trouble for physically leaving bruises on his from spanking him, as well as grabbing him. Because of this she has made it hard for me to do anything with my boyfriend's son. Yesterday she informed my boyfriend that if I come with him again to get his son that she will call the police. Can she legally do that? We never park in the driveway of her apartment building, and I only get out of the car to let my boyfriend's son get in his seat because he sits behind me, in our two door car. I have never threatened her or her son. She has threatened me continuously with police involvement and switching my boyfriend's son's school as well as other things. She said that she can't legally keep me away from her son, but she can make everything else more difficult.
Any advice on what to do? I want to he able to have a future with my boyfriend and his son and our children, but I am sick of the constant harassment and slander I get from his ex.
There is a visitation agreement that my boyfriend gets his son Friday at 6pm till Sunday at 6pm. She doesn't keep him up to date on anything involving school or health, and were he currently stays while she is at work is with his grandmother where his aunt is living and she was just released from jail for drugs and child endangerment.
I have had verbal arguments with the ex girlfriend about her not wanting me to attend his events and such after her boyfriend got in trouble for physically leaving bruises on his from spanking him, as well as grabbing him. Because of this she has made it hard for me to do anything with my boyfriend's son. Yesterday she informed my boyfriend that if I come with him again to get his son that she will call the police. Can she legally do that? We never park in the driveway of her apartment building, and I only get out of the car to let my boyfriend's son get in his seat because he sits behind me, in our two door car. I have never threatened her or her son. She has threatened me continuously with police involvement and switching my boyfriend's son's school as well as other things. She said that she can't legally keep me away from her son, but she can make everything else more difficult.
Any advice on what to do? I want to he able to have a future with my boyfriend and his son and our children, but I am sick of the constant harassment and slander I get from his ex.
There is a visitation agreement that my boyfriend gets his son Friday at 6pm till Sunday at 6pm. She doesn't keep him up to date on anything involving school or health, and were he currently stays while she is at work is with his grandmother where his aunt is living and she was just released from jail for drugs and child endangerment.