- Jurisdiction
- California
My husband and I currently have court ordered visitation with his 2 daughters (10 and 7) every other weekend and every wednesday. (which was a huge battle with their mother ) The 10 yr old also has Type I Diabetes and requires extra medical care and is on an insulin pump. Their mother was just diagnosed with stage III ovarian cancer and has been in the hospital for 3 weeks and is unable to care for the girls. At this time, she is not allowing the girls to stay with us because it's "her time", even though she is not around to care for them. So she is splitting their time between their grandparents and daycare, even though my husband is available and capable of caring for the girls during this time. We would like an order that states if she is not able to care for the girls, they come to us. I am not sure if we just need to file a request for change in order? If/when she passes, or becomes on hospice, do we need to file for custody? Would custody automatically fall to my husband? It sounds brutal, but we are trying to prepare and plan for our future in event we need to take the girls in full time. We are concerned about her ability to care for the girls, especially the one with diabetes as she has a lot doctor's appts and requires extra careful attention. Any recommendations would be greatly appreciated! Thank you