I have some questions regarding modifying the visitation rights on my court order. Currently our court order states that we have joint legal custody but I the mother have primary physical care of the child. The situation is that my daughter's father has not been picking up his daughter. It's been a year and a month with no phone visits or phone calls. During this time he had a court order to determine paternity. The results were that he is 99.99% the father of the said child. I am not moving closer to him and I am afraid that he will want to come and just take our daughter. I know we both have joint custody but he has been absent in over a year. I was wondering if there was something I could do to prevent this or what options I have modify the court order.