Hello, I am new here and could use some help. My Son's Father paid support for over 5 years and then decided to not pay anymore. He is now over $5200 in arrears. NJ sent out paperwork to register enforcement in NY on Oct. 14 of 2011, NY sent it to local office on Oct. 19 (Miller Place) I was told 90 days were needed for answer and that the Father deserves due process and has 30 days to answer. Those days are up and the full 90 days end next week. I have tried to find out the guidelines on how handled and was told can only wait for NY to answer, which of course, they haven't as of yet. I called NY by advice and tried to get help there and was only told they can't and won't talk to me. I call probation and asked them what happens after 90 days are up? and I get "we just gotta hope NY answers" that's it???? What you read I guess and what happens when you can't afford a Lawyer are two different things. The guy claims self-employment, and lies about everything, how much he makes, cheats IRS, has everything in his Wife or Mother's name and hides the fact that he has a partner in another company and that too is hidden. I read that not paying results in going before a Judge, and at certain times loss of license, I don't understand how the arrears are piling up, they confirmed where he is, that nothing being done. I could sure use some advice if there is anything I can do???