I want to know how I can go about with getting papers drawn up on my ex giving up rights to my boy. He is wanting to get out of child support , so he is willing to go either for joint custody or visitation(after 4 years of not seeing him) or talked of signing over rights to my husband, who has raised my son as his own since my son was three months old. My son calls my husband Daddy and that is who he knows as Daddy all his life. My ex has started calling and trying to accomplish something in order to stay out of jail and now he is cussing me out on the phone and threatening me if I dont let him see my son, what can I do? He has 30 days hanging over his head that I could impose from not paying support, but I would like to have him willingly sign papers before I impose that. Any advice???