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Hello, My husband is paying child support every week for his daughter whom is now 18 years of age working full time and living with her boyfriend from August of this year (2005) until present. She is enrolled in collage and is due to start January 23,2006 but has no plans on returing back to live with her mother. She still wants to live out on her own. In the meantime the X-Wife has been collecting this child support money and using it for what ever. We have asked if her mom has been giving her any of the money and to our dismay the daughter has said no. My husband does not want to upset his daughter and the 25 year old daughter as the X bought a home using the support money as added income to qualify for her mortage and the purchase of a new car. Without this money I dont think she can afford her bills. For this my husband feels that his childeren will turn on him if he stops the x's support. This is not fair to him nor the daughter. There is nobody making out here but her. I feel she is stealing. Can she leagely collect the money when the daughter lives on her own and is working fulltime? Any suggestions to wake him up?????
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