This question is ties to my right of first refusal clause.
My right of first refusal clause is as follows (word for word):
In the event the parent regularly scheduled to care for the children would use an alternative caregiver for a period of more than four hour(sic), that parent shall offer a right of first refusal to the other parent in caring for the children before arranging for an alternate caregiver.
For this question, the applicable visitation time starts Oct 30 @ 6 pm and goes through Monday morning when I drop my boys of at school.
I am planning to go to my schools homecoming on Nov 1, and will return the afternoon of the 2nd.
My ex is exercising her right of first refusal, and is saying that since I am asking her to watch the overnight the 1st, that she will just keep them and not give them back. She says her lawyer said by going away overnight, I am giving up all the remainder of my time. Is this true? She lies constantly, but sometimes there is truth to what she says, so I just am trying to find out if she can do this?
My right of first refusal clause is as follows (word for word):
In the event the parent regularly scheduled to care for the children would use an alternative caregiver for a period of more than four hour(sic), that parent shall offer a right of first refusal to the other parent in caring for the children before arranging for an alternate caregiver.
For this question, the applicable visitation time starts Oct 30 @ 6 pm and goes through Monday morning when I drop my boys of at school.
I am planning to go to my schools homecoming on Nov 1, and will return the afternoon of the 2nd.
My ex is exercising her right of first refusal, and is saying that since I am asking her to watch the overnight the 1st, that she will just keep them and not give them back. She says her lawyer said by going away overnight, I am giving up all the remainder of my time. Is this true? She lies constantly, but sometimes there is truth to what she says, so I just am trying to find out if she can do this?