I'm not sure where this falls. What I'm trying to find out is if there is a way to keep a married man who is dating my ex-wife from being around my children at least until he is divorced. Other extenuating circumstances behind this are that my ex took out a TPO against him and that they were not to have contact with each other for a year. Now she is telling me that the agreement is null and void and that they are dating again and that he is getting a divorce. I'm not asking for custody(at least not right now), just can I keep him away from my children.