Daughter removed from my care by police after 7 years in my care

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Daughter removed from my care by police after 7 years in my custody by bio-mom with an old custody order. What can I do?

My 13 year old daughter was removed from our/her home at 1 am Friday. 2 local officers, an "order of assistance ", and an old custody decree-issued in another county to her bio-mom when she was 2 was all it took. My wife, myself, and 4 children (incl her) have been a family for the last 7 yrs.
I was granted rights to my daughter (and son) through CSP after severe neglect occurred by the bio-mom. We have provided every type of support for her all these years and I don't understand how this is legal.

I've contacted authorities with all one answer...Judge Signed...nothing I can do!

I attempted custody prior to her re-entry (only 5 mths every other weekend) into my daughters & sons lives (joint custody 4 autistic son) with judges making it impossible as well as a few DIY mistakes on my end.
I tried a parenting plan (created by bio-mom) which she ironically failed to follow up with making it void.

This woman has an Un-diagnosed case of munchhausen syndrome (tried to claim daughter was developmentally slow when only 4/son diag autistic @2/her son only 2 she has had tested for developmental delays months ago..He's 2!) She has allowed sexual abuse to occur to my daughter (possibly son-non verbal), which has had a lasting impacts on my daughter to this day. We have had to take her to a psycho-sexual evaluator, counselors, dealt with school infractions, had our kids evaluated, police interrogations, and random visits from CPS...A side note....Deschutes County Child Pro Services & Staff should be commended for their hard work & dedication to families in need of support as they were wonderful for our family and I have no ill words to say about them...However, all of this was done to rule out us being the cause of her acting out, all to determine in a report the actual cause was PTSD related to her abuse she injured while in the care of he "mother"..but that's void because it's only the last 6 months that matters according to the law & this county...Always!!!
To this day despite the police reports proving multiple cases of child neglect/endangerment, fecal matter, 17 cats, missing Autistic Son, Pill addiction, no food, piles of clothing, masks required to enter residence of a newly built home, telling police I was not involved in my children's life, providing false information, and being rushed off by paramedics-she called after told she was being charged with child neglect-she has never been charged! jailed! or put before a judge to face a f*n thing in her life. Now my 13 year old daughter..a young woman now..who knows her step mom as "mom" is handed to her biological mom she wanted/choose to have nothing to do with (remember parent plan attempted so was able to see her) and there's not a damn thing I can do about it??

She took off, decided to have babies (one of them passed away sadly-still question that sometimes), claims abuse toward other child's father-obtained restraining orders on him (did to me repeatedly in past), and prevented that man from seeing his child as well..and no Red Flags?? No mis-use of the system?? No one gives a Crap?? Seriously she might as we'll be god because she can walk on water when it comes to the law!!

My daughter does not want to be there and has threatened (gave her a phone her mom unaware of in case of emergency before she was escorted by two 'bouncer' looking officers using intimidation tactics to take her away!! Ahhhh...It's maddening!! There's not a damn thing I can do but try to sell everything our family has to afford an attorney's retainer fee and hope they can do something for us..which in my experience has never been in our favor..despite "US"caring for them all these years!!! I was not trying to take her rights as there birth parent but she has taken mine!

It's so disgusting my mail on Saturday contained two things: (keep in mind took her Friday) respondents motion for summary judgement, and a child support order issued for me to pay her child support!!

What the hell is wrong with the system? Seriously? She never paid a freakin dime..despite a job and an order!!

Sorry so long just so frustrated!! Any advice/help is appreciated!!
 
You should retain an attorney and request said attorney to seek redress in a court of law.

There is absolutely NOTHING anyone can do over the Internet.

Your recourse and/or remedy should be pursued by an attorney of your choosing at your direction using the judicial system in your state.

Good luck.
 
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So sorry to hear. This is devastating news, I'm sure. But the police were acting pursuant to a court order, which they must. While we would love to help, as army judge states, we are in absolutely no position to be able to provide insight in what is certainly a complicated situation.

You should seek a family law attorney who should be able help you in this matter. In addition, sometimes advocates are also of assistance as can be a former guardian ad litem if one was appointed for the child. Good luck with this matter. You're a great person to take in the child of another and provide care. Let us know if we can provide some useful feedback if and when you have more information.
 
Sorry to hear about your situation. From your words I gather that your daughter is not safe with her bio-mother. Don't waste your time over this, go to a family law firm, ASAP and start the procedures to fight for the custody of your daughter. One of my colleague's took the help of a law firm to fight for the custody of her daughter. She has won the custody and is currently settled in NY. Meanwhile, don't try to meet her or take her back by force because that may come against you when the case progresses. I hope you reunite with your daughter soon.
 
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Sorry to hear about your situation. From your words I gather that your daughter is not safe with her bio-mother. Don't waste your time over this, go to a family law firm, ASAP and start the procedures to fight for the custody of your daughter. One of my colleague's took the help of a law firm to fight for the custody of her daughter. She has won the custody and is currently settled in NY. Meanwhile, don't try to meet her or take her back by force because that may come against you when the case progresses. I hope you reunite with your daughter soon.

For goodness sake, pal, is spamming the only thing you know?
 
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