ladylove32
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In 2008 mom filed for cash assistance ie child care, tanif, ect. Division of social services filed against my husband with out informing mom or him about it. When we received information mom and my husband contacted social services and mom informed them that she did not want court ordered child support because my husband and I have always paid her cash or check in hand every week for support of child. Social services made them repeat everything over a recorded phone call with all parties on the line. I think they even made mom send in a written statement waiving court ordered support. My husband and I have never had issue supporting his daughter we have even talked about filing for full custody since she is all of a sudden having issues supporting my husband's daughter now that she has had another child and gotten married in the last 2 years and is withholding visitation until she receives money /cash in hand and gets her just within the last 2 weeks court ordered child support. ( <---my opinion is child abuse but not sure if it is legally since there isn't established court ordered custody set yet). No my husband doesn't owe the state a single penny besides what they take from his check each week for taxes.They did this because neither one of them wanted my husband to end up in system for support in case of him becoming injured or losing his job for any amount of time and it causing bigger issues for all parties involved. Which she watched happen to her farther growing up. Before my husband and I were married we had the same thing happen to us prior to 2008 with DSS and we had to do the exact same steps except I volunteered giving a written statement because he did anything and everything for all 3 children. Our 2 plus his daughter whom I've been around and helping raise since she was 4.5 mos old when mom just up and left in the middle of the work day with. (Background)
So my question is: can mom all of a sudden withhold visitation rights from my husband because she wants money money money and is it considered child abuse that she won't let his daughter see him and is telling his daughter she isn't allowed to talk our text him out anyone in our family including her brother and sister? Please help!!!!!
So my question is: can mom all of a sudden withhold visitation rights from my husband because she wants money money money and is it considered child abuse that she won't let his daughter see him and is telling his daughter she isn't allowed to talk our text him out anyone in our family including her brother and sister? Please help!!!!!