My son is fourteen years old and his father is very manipulating. He chose to live with father. Although my son is at the age to decide, I fought this due to his father being arrested for domestic violence on his wife, and because his most recent arrest for domestic battery conviction on his wife's eleven year old son with bodily injury. Despite the fact he was pending a probation violation for failing a drug screen and had a pending hearing, My son's father was awarded sole legal and physical custody. Currently, one month later to the date of the change of custody, his father is in jail until at least December 17th 2013, and has a warrant out of another county. No one will disclose what the warrant is for or what county it is out of. I have attempted calling the police to get my son, and they will not remove him from the grandmother. In addition, they refused my parenting time this weekend. When calling the police, all I get is it is a civil matter and get a lawyer. Well I cannot afford a lawyer which is why he got custody in the first place. I have called Division of Family and Children and they cannot intervene because I can't prove my son is in danger. Today, I received court papers for emergency temporary custody from his attorney for his mother to have temporary custody. I have a very unfair Judge and would like a change of venue, but he has 30 days to respond, giving my son 30 more days at his grandmother's. And the Judge will likely deny my request because I don't have an attorney. I should have first right's while he is in jail. I filed emergency custody due to his father being in jail on Friday 11/08/2013 by fax. How can I get my son until a decision is made. I have nothing on my record and I cannot understand this county's unlawful decisions.. Someone please tell how to get my son.