momma_2_four
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I know it is frowned on to have the child doing any kind of passing of information between parents. For the last 10 years, my son's dad has always handed it to me directly when I would pick my son up from visitation or drop him off. We have recently changed to 50/50 residential and we don't have as much contact now. I've asked my son's dad to mail the check to me so that I actually get it on time, but he refuses. He also has been sending it with our son. During school he was putting it in our son's school planner and our son was then responsible for getting it to me. Either when he saw me next or via one of his sisters. Now that it is summer, it is the same intent although often late. He hands our son the check and our son is to get it to me when I pick him up from daycare or whatever activity he is doing. I have continually asked my son's dad to mail it to me so it will arrive on time and so our son would not be involved in this issue. He refuses. What are some options to actually get our son out of this mess and to get the check on time? This last week (the check was already a week late) my son lost the check and my son's dad is making him feel bad about it and that has really been the last straw. He is also refusing to cut another check since he already wrote one for this month.