Missinformed
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HI
My husband and I live in CO, the issue in question was decided in NM where the child resides with her grandmother.
My husband did not find out till the child was 2 that he was indeed the father. He was ordered to pay child support and has payed since the day ordered. From 2004 to now we always thought and were under the impression the child was with her mother. My husband would attempt to see the child and the mother would either show up and not have the child with her or take off when ever my husband tried to see her in NM. The last contact we had with the mother or we found out where she was it was CPS calling us from CA telling us the child was living a homeless lifestyle with the mother. that was in Jan of 2008. We never did here anything else and we were unable to find the mother or the child.
Fast forward to April of this year. My husband received a letter from NM asking him to redirect payment to there office and that payments will now be going to the Grandmother of the child. Here is where we are lost apparently the grandmother has always had the child except for 9 months of her life when she was with the mother who is now deemed cert unstable. So any way we also receive a letter with/from child support in NM that the Grandmother is the guardian as of May 2009. She had filed and is perminant guardian of the child.
My husband here in CO from court papers here say he is the non-custodial parent. But he was never notified of the Guardianship being transfered, he was never asked, nothing. Can this be revoked?? since we didn't know about it and he was never contacted? How do we do this?
We are more then capable of caring for the child and providing a stable home. We have two other children.
Thanks
Miss-informed.
My husband and I live in CO, the issue in question was decided in NM where the child resides with her grandmother.
My husband did not find out till the child was 2 that he was indeed the father. He was ordered to pay child support and has payed since the day ordered. From 2004 to now we always thought and were under the impression the child was with her mother. My husband would attempt to see the child and the mother would either show up and not have the child with her or take off when ever my husband tried to see her in NM. The last contact we had with the mother or we found out where she was it was CPS calling us from CA telling us the child was living a homeless lifestyle with the mother. that was in Jan of 2008. We never did here anything else and we were unable to find the mother or the child.
Fast forward to April of this year. My husband received a letter from NM asking him to redirect payment to there office and that payments will now be going to the Grandmother of the child. Here is where we are lost apparently the grandmother has always had the child except for 9 months of her life when she was with the mother who is now deemed cert unstable. So any way we also receive a letter with/from child support in NM that the Grandmother is the guardian as of May 2009. She had filed and is perminant guardian of the child.
My husband here in CO from court papers here say he is the non-custodial parent. But he was never notified of the Guardianship being transfered, he was never asked, nothing. Can this be revoked?? since we didn't know about it and he was never contacted? How do we do this?
We are more then capable of caring for the child and providing a stable home. We have two other children.
Thanks
Miss-informed.