I am in need of real help. My ex each summer tries to get custody of our child before the school year starts. We have three kids together and divorced 4+ years! I say he is bullying by saying he has the best laywer and can get this done overnite! My children have always been in my custody. He states at 12yrs old the judge will hear him and consider his desire. I am a drug-free, respectable parent that does not want to lose her child(ren). He is verbal abusive to me now by callimg me out of my name. He is behind on child support and I feel this is his attemp to lower the piper!