I have been married for 2 and 1/2 years. We have had nothing but terminal since we got married. Before we got married we were living together and decided to move,my wife bought a house in her name, my name was not used because my credit score was to low and it would raise the interest rate, so instead my income was used on the application as additional income. The land the house sits on is in her name. A year and 1/2 ago we started the process of building a day care next to our house, i agreed to do this because it is what she has always wanted and I wanted to make her happy. We went to the bank and the loan was put in her name and I signed a form saying I would help pay it back ( I guess as a co-signer). We do not have any kids together, she has 2 of her own which she shares custody with her ex husband. First I am trying to find out if I am responsible for a house payment if I leave and second if I give up all interest in the day care and leave what am I responsible for. Since we have only been married for 2 and 1/2 years is she allowed allimony and would she be allowed to get any of my military retirement that I am now recieving since April 2009.