Seeking_Help
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I have joint legal custody of my children. My ex purposefully does not list me as a parent at the schools or doctors. My ex withholds medical and school information from me. The schools and doctors offices do not give me information because I am not listed as a parent. I think my ex must also write something else down because when I offer to show proof of my joint legal custody they say I "have to work it out with the other parent."
I believe I have full decision making ability to medical and school matters, and certainly should not be cut-off from this information.
Do I need to go to court for something more? Or can I have a lawyer write a generic letter to these entities for myself to present to be listed as a person who legally has access to the records?
Any help is greatly appreciated. My son has recently been in a crash -racking bikes on Lance Armstrong's ex team - at over 50 mph. My ex is terrible with medical follow up and I am a student nurse soon to graduate as an RN. He needs my help now and I must get this straightened out!
Thanks for any advise-
I believe I have full decision making ability to medical and school matters, and certainly should not be cut-off from this information.
Do I need to go to court for something more? Or can I have a lawyer write a generic letter to these entities for myself to present to be listed as a person who legally has access to the records?
Any help is greatly appreciated. My son has recently been in a crash -racking bikes on Lance Armstrong's ex team - at over 50 mph. My ex is terrible with medical follow up and I am a student nurse soon to graduate as an RN. He needs my help now and I must get this straightened out!
Thanks for any advise-