Can I have the court order marriage counseling and not grant the divorce my wife is asking for? I have only been married 8 months and my wife has been pressured by her family to divorce. I have not been allowed an opportunity to reconcile and and the grounds for the divorce state irreconcilable differences. I do not want to divorce and I want the opportunity to make it work. I'm hoping the court can give orders for her to try to reconcile. If she doesn't I'll walk away, but I would like to fight the dicorce from happening. What are my options?