liedto_16yrs
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I have been married to a man for almost 16yrs. I have been 100% faithfull, I haven't worked in those 16 yrs because he told me in the beginning of the marriage that I would never have to work. He controls all the money, pays all the bills, but when I ask for a few dollars ....even if it is only $5.00.... he always say's " We'll see...and I never get it. But yet he can always find the money to go where and when he wants to do things. All this time anytime I wanted to go somewhere with Family or friends...they always had to pay for me. Except for when I wanted to go to my family in another state...for emergency situations or family weddings..etc. Then and only then will he give me the money for it. But then it is only the exact amount for the ticket to fly. And maybe a few dollars more ...and I do mean just a few dollars more for whatever I need to eat with. For the almost 16 yrs I have been with this man...we have never done anything that interested me. Always what he wanted to do...my things I always wanted to do got put on hold...LIke: Well, lets do this first..and then we can go where you want to..but then it never happened. I have Heart, Liver, Thyroid, Aneurysm, Asthma and alot of other things wrong with me. ( That is another reason I haven't worked.) When I had my heart attack the doctors told him not to smoke around me....he still smokes in the house. But when His granddaughter comes over , he refuses to smoke in the house.
Do I have grounds for a divorce ?
Do I have grounds for a divorce ?